There are things full of joy. They are useful to keep a note of, for when it’s not OK.

Possessing a tailcoat
Having a job that is writing
And still wanting to write all the time
Night walks
A summer full of music
One’s own domain names
Spiked leather garters as everyday wear
A trip to a hot island
Books
Soup
Splendid parents who are well
Miraculous husband
Owning a ceramic bottom with ears